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Order of Man: Protect | Provide | Preside

We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experience and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Dec 12, 2018

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about the one thing every father must do, learning to appreciate the day-to-day grind, how to overcome past regrets, the power of "negative visualization," and so much more.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Dec 11, 2018

Pornography is something that all men have likely engaged in to some degree. What's fascinating is the debate that ensues whenever someone suggests that pornography is not good for men.

My guest today, JK Emezi, makes the case for why we ought to engage in pornography and masturbating less, how to overcome the urge to participate in these activities, how the temptation is only likely to get work, and how porn erodes and undermines masculinity.

 

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • 3 reasons to quit porn
  • How love, duty, and fear can help you quit watching porn
  • How porn impacts sexual performance
  • How to best overcome the urge to watch porn
  • How the rise in robots and AI will only compound the problem
  • How to develop new coping skills
  • The biochemical imbalances of watching porn and masturbating
  • The five-step process for overcoming pornography addiction
  • Why self-imposed limitations are critical
  • Testosterone's role in a man's life
  • How to better utilize self-control
  • How to achieve true sexual satisfaction
  • Tips and activities for replacing the urge to engage in porn use
  • The technology you can use to help overcome your addiction

 

J.K EMEZI

My guest today is J.K Emezi.

He is a Sex and Pornography Addiction Coach and has been for the last 9 years and he specializes in helping men overcome porn, masturbation, and other sexually compulsive disorders.

This is a fascinating discussion with someone who is well qualified to address the sexual issues a lot of men deal with.

He's written for our site before and one of his articles happens to be one of the most controversial of ours to date as he covers a topic that a lot of men aren't comfortable in discussing and one that remains very polarizing to a lot of men.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/195

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Dec 7, 2018

David Gilmore said, "The real man gains renown by standing between his family and destruction, absorbing the blows of fate with equanimity."

The question then remains, are you adequately prepared to stand in front of your family when the wolf comes knocking at the door?

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Dec 5, 2018

Today, Kipp and I talk about how to deal with a negative boss, getting back on track when you slip up, whether or not a man should focus on his strengths or weaknesses, and what it means to be a man.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Dec 4, 2018

We all have access to the world's greatest minds, philosophies, experiments, and ideas. All it takes for us to tap into these is to crack open what my guest refers to as a Great Book, and unlock the lost thoughts, ideas, and secrets to a successful life.

Today I am joined by Scott Hambrick, founder of Online Great Books, to talk about how best to tap into these great ancient works, how to extract the most value from them, where to start when learning about ancient literature and philosophy, the benefits of reading the classics, and what you can learn from the great ancients.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • Why we should all read the classics
  • Harnessing technology to study the greats
  • The depth of the western canon (Plato, Aristotle, Cicero, Socrates, etc.)
  • The right way to study ancient literature
  • The benefits of reading the classics
  • The Socratic Method
  • The correct way to hold a conversation around philosophy
  • The three components of grammar: logic, rhetoric, and context
  • Reading for comprehension
  • Developing your B.S detector
  • Who and what dictates a "great" book
  • What is language
  • The power of shared inquiry (AKA, curiosity)
  • Understanding truth

SCOTT HAMBRICK

My guest today is Scott Hambrick, he is the founder of Online Great Books and a certified Starting Strength Coach.

He's also an avid reader (which you'll hear from our conversation together) and a practitioner of the Socratic Method (which you'll hear him walk through with me during this conversation).

Through his work with Online Great Books, Scott is working to reintroduce tens of thousands of men to the great books of the western world.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/194

Website: https://orderofman.com

Nov 30, 2018

It's painfully obvious that men are becoming weaker both physically and mentally. A large part of it may have to do with the changing landscape of our day-to-day lives but that doesn't negate the need for strong men in an otherwise weak society.

Today I talk about the ways we're becoming weaker, the antidote to weakness, and issue a challenge to join me in the War on Weakness.

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Nov 28, 2018

Today, we talk about what it means to be brave, how to keep going when you don't see the progress you'd like, whether or not ego can be used as a positive, overcoming the fear of success, and how to deal with a bad boss.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Nov 27, 2018

I know a lot of men who listen to the podcast are interested in turning a simple idea into a movement much like we've created here at Order of Man. And, more than simply a movement, finding a way to turn that movement into a profitable career and source of income.

My guest today, Brian Rose with London Real, has done exactly that by bringing together and discussing ideas with the most interesting people in the world. Today, Brian and I talk about crafting your own story, developing the "X-Factor," how to create a product ecosystem, and how to ultimately build a profitable movement.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • How to stop worrying about what other people say and think
  • How to craft your own story
  • How to adapt to change
  • How to develop the x-factor
  • How to overcome the fear that keeps most people back
  • How to make maximum impact in the market
  • How to find a mentor
  • How to level up and evolve who you are
  • How to effectively network to produce results
  • How to monetize a message and market
  • How to transform people
  • How to develop a minimum viable product
  • How to create a product ecosystem
  • Why it's imperative you dissolve your ego
  • Why you should be absolutely obsessed with constant improvement
  • Why you need to change your relationship with money
  • Learning to cope with physical and mental limitations

BRIAN ROSE

Gentlemen, I'm stoked to introduce you to my guest today, Mr. Brian Rose.

He is the founder of London Real and a big source of inspiration and motivation for what we have created here with Order of Man.

He is interviewing some of the most inspiring people on the planet like Jocko, Jordan Peterson, Grant Cardone, Dan Carlin, General McCrystal, and so many more.

An MIT graduate and extremely successful in the banking and financial world, Brian left all that to pursue a dream of launching a global media company. And he's done just that.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/193

Website: https://orderofman.com

Nov 23, 2018

It would be remiss of me not to express my gratitude this weekend for you and the other blessings I've enjoyed this year. I also want to talk with you about some of the problems I see in society, who this movement is for, and my vision for the future of Order of Man.

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Nov 21, 2018

Today we talk about how critical consistency is in achieving your goals, whether or not "luck exists and how to create more of it, and how to improve intimacy in your romantic relationships.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Nov 20, 2018

"Man up" is a term that is likely to trigger a lot of people in the world today. It's too bad because the term is so misunderstood by society and so powerful when there is a clear understanding of what it actually means.

My guest today, Mr. Bedros Keuilian, talks with us about what that means and how to instill the meaning into our boys, how to lead yourself more effectively, assessing and analyzing risk, overcoming bad programming and each and every one of us can more effectively "man up" in our lives.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • How to lead yourself more effectively
  • Understanding the power of your "why"
  • How to heal yourself
  • Why small commitments are more significant than the larger ones
  • Why rites of passage are so important for young men
  • The power of decisiveness
  • How to develop clarity of vision
  • How to build a high-performance team
  • Making the "mind-muscle" connection
  • Analyzing and assessing risks
  • Overcoming bad programming
  • Developing mental toughness
  • The power of owning every situation
  • Creating the blueprint for the type of man you want to be
  • Becoming and raising a "Modern Day Knight"
  • The difference between reasons and excuses


BEDROS KEUILIAN

Gentlemen, it is my pleasure to introduce you to our repeat guest, Bedros Keuilian.

I was so blown away with his my first conversation with him and his story that I thought it only made sense to bring him back on considering he just released a new book called, Man Up: How to Cut the Bullshit and Kick Ass in Business (and in Life).

Bedros is a serial entrepreneur, speaker, coach, and author and one of my favorite people to talk to because of his no-nonsense approach to life. I really think you're going to enjoy this episode because he tells it like it is and says the things most people are thinking but too afraid to say.

Guys, get your notepads out and get ready to hear from a man who has come from nothing and turned his into an absolutely incredible life.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/192

Website: https://orderofman.com

Nov 16, 2018

Today, I talk about a man's responsibility to be a good steward over himself, his resources, and those he has an obligation for. Too many men today are living the antithesis of a good steward by shirking personal responsibility and accountability in their lives. I also break down 5 keys to being a great steward:

- Produce More Than You Consume
- Think Generationally
- A Title is Not Necessary
- Become a Sentinel
- Operate From a Sense of Duty and Obligation

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Nov 14, 2018

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about keeping yourself out of the "comparison trap," pushing through change and challenges, and how to rebuild strained relationships.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Nov 13, 2018

Every once in a while, you meet someone so special you know you need to connect more with that person. Today, I have the opportunity to share my conversation with one of those people, Sidney Smith.

I met him briefly at a 5k then spent a couple hours hiking down a mountainside while shooting our bows at the Total Archery Challenge. That doesn't sound that special until you learn that Sid is a double amputee. and does his walking and running on prosthetic blades. We talk about overcoming fear, focusing on the positives of life, learning to appreciate what we have, getting used to pain, and turning tragedy into triumph.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • How to develop a growth mindset in the toughest circumstances
  • The difference between being "disabled" and being "challenged"
  • How to learn about who you really are
  • Understanding that the greatest disability you could have is in your mind
  • Overcoming the fear of uncertainty
  • How to make extremely difficult decisions
  • Learning to focus on the positives of life
  • How not to take things in your life for granted
  • The challenges that come with being a double amputee
  • Overcoming how people treat those with disabilities
  • The power of thinking big and giving yourself purpose
  • Pushing past physical and mental pain
  • Learning to cope with physical and mental limitations


SIDNEY SMITH

A couple of months ago, I had the opportunity to participate in the Total Archery Challenge in Northern Utah with my friends at MTN OPS.

I met a lot of great people but I had the incredible opportunity to run the course with my guest today, Mr. Sidney Smith. I had only bumped into him one other time but as I spent 3 or so hours walking down a mountain with Sid, a double amputee, I was amazed and humbled at how this man shows up in his life.

He's an avid bow hunter, a triathlete, and, as I mentioned before, he's a double amputee. But he doesn't let that keep him from living his life in a big way and inspiring others along the way to do the same.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/191

Website: https://orderofman.com

Nov 9, 2018

There is a difference between simply being a good man and being good at being a man. Today, I talk about the differences and why it's critical we learn to embrace the performative excellence that comes with the active role of being good at being a man.

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Nov 7, 2018

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I answer questions regarding honor, character, and integrity, how to get noticed at work, instilling toughness in our children, how I am influenced by, and how to prioritize information with application

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Nov 6, 2018

10 years ago, I found myself listening to CDs from my guest while driving between financial advisory appointments. He had no idea how influential he would be in my life as I frustratingly attempted to build my first business.

10 years later, I have the privilege of having an incredibly powerful conversation with one of the most important people in my professional/business life, Mr. Ed Mylett. Today, we talk about over to overcome your greatest fears, the power of faith in your aspirations, how to unleash your greatest gifts and skills, and how to fully max out your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • Why it's critical you choose your words carefully
  • How to overcome your greatest fears
  • Why you need to know what's worth fighting for
  • The power of faith in your aspirations
  • How to "level up" your goals and objectives
  • Developing a proper work/life balance
  • Why your reputation with yourself is crucial
  • How to develop unwavering self-esteem
  • Finding the middle ground between giving and taking
  • Differentiating between ego and pride
  • How to tap into and unleash your unique gifts and skills
  • How to attract high-profile people into your life
  • The distinction between happiness and fulfillment
  • How to walk the thin line between confidence and arrogance


ED MYLETT

Gentlemen, I can't even begin to describe how excited I am to be introducing you to my guest today, Mr. Ed Mylett.

All of my conversations have been powerful but this one is a personal favorite of mine as Ed has had such a huge impact on my professional life. I started listening to him 10 years ago when I got back from Iraq and back then I had no idea I'd have the opportunity to talk with him on a podcast.

Most of you know exactly who Ed is so I'll spare you the long introduction. But let's just say for now that Ed is an incredible entrepreneur, a powerful coach and mentor to some of the most successful people on the planet, and the host and founder of the Ed Mylett Podcast. Today, you're going to hear exactly why I look up to this man and why he's achieved the tremendous amount of success he has.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/190

Website: https://orderofman.com

Nov 2, 2018

Today, I talk about becoming a man of value, why it's critical we learn to add more than we take, and a three-step formula for making yourself more valuable to others.

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Oct 31, 2018

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about overcoming failed relationships, dismissing the term, "fragile masculinity," reversing the tide of fatherless homes, and so much more...

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Oct 30, 2018

One of the most common challenges I see men face is their inability to overcome being too nice. Don't get me wrong, being nice is great but when it comes at the expense of your own well-being, it becomes a problem.

Today, I am joined by psychologist, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, to talk about the pitfalls of being too nice. We cover the "guilt bubble" and how to get out of it, the costs of being overly nice, learning to speak up and develop healthy boundaries, and how to stop being so nice.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • What does it mean to be "nice"
  • How being overly nice is self-sabotaging
  • What the "guilt bubble" is and how to get out of it
  • The costs of being too nice
  • How to liberate yourself
  • How to establish healthy boundaries
  • Learning to speak up
  • Why being selfish is not always a bad thing
  • How to choose and communicate your rules
  • Strategies for improving your ability to say "no"
  • How to care about others without jeopardizing yourself
  • How to increase your discomfort tolerance
  • How to "own your shadows"
  • How to develop more assertiveness


DR. AZIZ GAZIPURA


Dr. Aziz is a clinical psychologist and one of the world's leading experts on social confidence.

In 2011, Dr. Aziz started The Center For Social Confidence, which is dedicated to helping everyone break through their shyness and social anxiety. He has helped thousands of people all over the world increase their confidence. Through confidence coaching, audio and video programs, podcasts, a detailed blog, and intensive weekend workshops, Dr. Aziz lives out his mission: To help every person who is stuck in shyness liberate themselves to pursue the relationship, career, and life they have always dreamed of.

Most recently, he wrote a book titled, Not Nice: Stop Pleasing People, Staying Silent, and Feeling Guilty, which is what he's here to talk with us about today.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/189

Website: https://orderofman.com

Oct 26, 2018

Today, I'm joined by one of my favorite people on the planet, my wife, Mrs. Tricia Michler. Together we field questions from our Iron Council and Facebook members and cover everything from how we support each other, how to deal with the travel and demands of my business and raising a family, how to encourage your partner to improve themselves, managing finances, and so much more.

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Oct 24, 2018

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about some deeper and more serious issues than we've addressed in the past like the myth of "Toxic Masculinity," addressing false rape allegations, current trends in society that impact both men and women, and, on a not-so-serious note, whether Batman is a superhero or not.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Oct 23, 2018

Each and every one of us has a desire to strengthen our bodies and minds. Why is it then that so many men struggle when it comes to the training they know will improve every area of their lives?

This is a question my guest, Bobby Maximus, has been answering for his training clients for years and helping them bridge the gap between where they are now and where they want to be. Today, we talk about the psychology of training, how to eliminate the excuses that creep in, why you should reframe "self-improvement" as "self-work," and how to harden the body and mind.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • The psychology of training
  • Developing a strong self-image
  • Eliminate excuses
  • How to train for life
  • How to sift through the noise and garbage
  • Reframing self-improvement as self-work
  • How to build in accountability
  • How to know if your why is strong enough
  • Balancing internal and external growth
  • How to eliminate your doubts
  • What is "green dot therapy"
  • 10 words that will ruin your life
  • How to kill your self-governor
  • Why you should document your progress


BOBBY MAXIMUS

I've been looking forward to introducing you to my guest, Bobby Maximus, for some time now.

Bobby has been in the fitness and health industry for more than a decade and served as the General Manager, Training Director and Lead Seminar Instructor at Gym Jones. He was also named as Men's Health's 100 Fittest Men of All Time.

In addition to that, he is a former police officer for the Toronto Police Service, a former UFC fighter, and holds a bachelor's degree in psychology, English, and education.
Needless to say, this is a man who understands the body and mind in a way not many people do and I couldn't be more excited to talk with him about hardening and strengthening both.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/188

Website: https://orderofman.com

Oct 19, 2018

Each and every one of us is likely to face catastrophic events and circumstances in our lives. We can retreat and wallow in our own self-pity or find a way to rise from the ashes. Here's a system for the latter.

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Oct 17, 2018

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about optimizing your day, developing and maintaining discipline, overcoming resistance, how to prioritize activities, and so much more.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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