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Order of Man: Protect | Provide | Preside

We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experience and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Nov 16, 2018

Today, I talk about a man's responsibility to be a good steward over himself, his resources, and those he has an obligation for. Too many men today are living the antithesis of a good steward by shirking personal responsibility and accountability in their lives. I also break down 5 keys to being a great steward:

- Produce More Than You Consume
- Think Generationally
- A Title is Not Necessary
- Become a Sentinel
- Operate From a Sense of Duty and Obligation

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Nov 14, 2018

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about keeping yourself out of the "comparison trap," pushing through change and challenges, and how to rebuild strained relationships.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Nov 13, 2018

Every once in a while, you meet someone so special you know you need to connect more with that person. Today, I have the opportunity to share my conversation with one of those people, Sidney Smith.

I met him briefly at a 5k then spent a couple hours hiking down a mountainside while shooting our bows at the Total Archery Challenge. That doesn't sound that special until you learn that Sid is a double amputee. and does his walking and running on prosthetic blades. We talk about overcoming fear, focusing on the positives of life, learning to appreciate what we have, getting used to pain, and turning tragedy into triumph.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • How to develop a growth mindset in the toughest circumstances
  • The difference between being "disabled" and being "challenged"
  • How to learn about who you really are
  • Understanding that the greatest disability you could have is in your mind
  • Overcoming the fear of uncertainty
  • How to make extremely difficult decisions
  • Learning to focus on the positives of life
  • How not to take things in your life for granted
  • The challenges that come with being a double amputee
  • Overcoming how people treat those with disabilities
  • The power of thinking big and giving yourself purpose
  • Pushing past physical and mental pain
  • Learning to cope with physical and mental limitations


SIDNEY SMITH

A couple of months ago, I had the opportunity to participate in the Total Archery Challenge in Northern Utah with my friends at MTN OPS.

I met a lot of great people but I had the incredible opportunity to run the course with my guest today, Mr. Sidney Smith. I had only bumped into him one other time but as I spent 3 or so hours walking down a mountain with Sid, a double amputee, I was amazed and humbled at how this man shows up in his life.

He's an avid bow hunter, a triathlete, and, as I mentioned before, he's a double amputee. But he doesn't let that keep him from living his life in a big way and inspiring others along the way to do the same.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/191

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Nov 9, 2018

There is a difference between simply being a good man and being good at being a man. Today, I talk about the differences and why it's critical we learn to embrace the performative excellence that comes with the active role of being good at being a man.

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Nov 7, 2018

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I answer questions regarding honor, character, and integrity, how to get noticed at work, instilling toughness in our children, how I am influenced by, and how to prioritize information with application

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Nov 6, 2018

10 years ago, I found myself listening to CDs from my guest while driving between financial advisory appointments. He had no idea how influential he would be in my life as I frustratingly attempted to build my first business.

10 years later, I have the privilege of having an incredibly powerful conversation with one of the most important people in my professional/business life, Mr. Ed Mylett. Today, we talk about over to overcome your greatest fears, the power of faith in your aspirations, how to unleash your greatest gifts and skills, and how to fully max out your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • Why it's critical you choose your words carefully
  • How to overcome your greatest fears
  • Why you need to know what's worth fighting for
  • The power of faith in your aspirations
  • How to "level up" your goals and objectives
  • Developing a proper work/life balance
  • Why your reputation with yourself is crucial
  • How to develop unwavering self-esteem
  • Finding the middle ground between giving and taking
  • Differentiating between ego and pride
  • How to tap into and unleash your unique gifts and skills
  • How to attract high-profile people into your life
  • The distinction between happiness and fulfillment
  • How to walk the thin line between confidence and arrogance


ED MYLETT

Gentlemen, I can't even begin to describe how excited I am to be introducing you to my guest today, Mr. Ed Mylett.

All of my conversations have been powerful but this one is a personal favorite of mine as Ed has had such a huge impact on my professional life. I started listening to him 10 years ago when I got back from Iraq and back then I had no idea I'd have the opportunity to talk with him on a podcast.

Most of you know exactly who Ed is so I'll spare you the long introduction. But let's just say for now that Ed is an incredible entrepreneur, a powerful coach and mentor to some of the most successful people on the planet, and the host and founder of the Ed Mylett Podcast. Today, you're going to hear exactly why I look up to this man and why he's achieved the tremendous amount of success he has.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/190

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Nov 2, 2018

Today, I talk about becoming a man of value, why it's critical we learn to add more than we take, and a three-step formula for making yourself more valuable to others.

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Oct 31, 2018

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about overcoming failed relationships, dismissing the term, "fragile masculinity," reversing the tide of fatherless homes, and so much more...

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Oct 30, 2018

One of the most common challenges I see men face is their inability to overcome being too nice. Don't get me wrong, being nice is great but when it comes at the expense of your own well-being, it becomes a problem.

Today, I am joined by psychologist, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, to talk about the pitfalls of being too nice. We cover the "guilt bubble" and how to get out of it, the costs of being overly nice, learning to speak up and develop healthy boundaries, and how to stop being so nice.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • What does it mean to be "nice"
  • How being overly nice is self-sabotaging
  • What the "guilt bubble" is and how to get out of it
  • The costs of being too nice
  • How to liberate yourself
  • How to establish healthy boundaries
  • Learning to speak up
  • Why being selfish is not always a bad thing
  • How to choose and communicate your rules
  • Strategies for improving your ability to say "no"
  • How to care about others without jeopardizing yourself
  • How to increase your discomfort tolerance
  • How to "own your shadows"
  • How to develop more assertiveness


DR. AZIZ GAZIPURA


Dr. Aziz is a clinical psychologist and one of the world's leading experts on social confidence.

In 2011, Dr. Aziz started The Center For Social Confidence, which is dedicated to helping everyone break through their shyness and social anxiety. He has helped thousands of people all over the world increase their confidence. Through confidence coaching, audio and video programs, podcasts, a detailed blog, and intensive weekend workshops, Dr. Aziz lives out his mission: To help every person who is stuck in shyness liberate themselves to pursue the relationship, career, and life they have always dreamed of.

Most recently, he wrote a book titled, Not Nice: Stop Pleasing People, Staying Silent, and Feeling Guilty, which is what he's here to talk with us about today.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/189

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Oct 26, 2018

Today, I'm joined by one of my favorite people on the planet, my wife, Mrs. Tricia Michler. Together we field questions from our Iron Council and Facebook members and cover everything from how we support each other, how to deal with the travel and demands of my business and raising a family, how to encourage your partner to improve themselves, managing finances, and so much more.

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Oct 24, 2018

Today, Kipp Sorensen and I talk about some deeper and more serious issues than we've addressed in the past like the myth of "Toxic Masculinity," addressing false rape allegations, current trends in society that impact both men and women, and, on a not-so-serious note, whether Batman is a superhero or not.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Oct 23, 2018

Each and every one of us has a desire to strengthen our bodies and minds. Why is it then that so many men struggle when it comes to the training they know will improve every area of their lives?

This is a question my guest, Bobby Maximus, has been answering for his training clients for years and helping them bridge the gap between where they are now and where they want to be. Today, we talk about the psychology of training, how to eliminate the excuses that creep in, why you should reframe "self-improvement" as "self-work," and how to harden the body and mind.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • The psychology of training
  • Developing a strong self-image
  • Eliminate excuses
  • How to train for life
  • How to sift through the noise and garbage
  • Reframing self-improvement as self-work
  • How to build in accountability
  • How to know if your why is strong enough
  • Balancing internal and external growth
  • How to eliminate your doubts
  • What is "green dot therapy"
  • 10 words that will ruin your life
  • How to kill your self-governor
  • Why you should document your progress


BOBBY MAXIMUS

I've been looking forward to introducing you to my guest, Bobby Maximus, for some time now.

Bobby has been in the fitness and health industry for more than a decade and served as the General Manager, Training Director and Lead Seminar Instructor at Gym Jones. He was also named as Men's Health's 100 Fittest Men of All Time.

In addition to that, he is a former police officer for the Toronto Police Service, a former UFC fighter, and holds a bachelor's degree in psychology, English, and education.
Needless to say, this is a man who understands the body and mind in a way not many people do and I couldn't be more excited to talk with him about hardening and strengthening both.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/188

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Oct 19, 2018

Each and every one of us is likely to face catastrophic events and circumstances in our lives. We can retreat and wallow in our own self-pity or find a way to rise from the ashes. Here's a system for the latter.

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Oct 17, 2018

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about optimizing your day, developing and maintaining discipline, overcoming resistance, how to prioritize activities, and so much more.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Oct 16, 2018

It's not a surprise to you that there is so much noise and nonsense that attempts to engage our focus and keep us distracted from the things that truly matter. And, if you're one of the few men who has actually taken the time to identify what you really want, that doesn't necessarily make things any easier.

Today, I am joined by former Navy SEAL and a lead instructor with Echelon Front, JP Dinnell. We talk about the importance of consistency towards your goals, why flexibility in training is critical, how to eliminate the things that keep your from meaning and significance, and living life on your terms.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • The importance of consistency towards your goals
  • Why discipline is a foundational principle of growth
  • Why flexibility in training is critical
  • How to own both problems and solutions
  • How to drill down to the core reasoning of your work
  • How to best honor the fallen and their sacrifices
  • Transitioning out of the service
  • 3 factors that break down a marriage
  • Choosing to take the harder route
  • How to overcome feelings of hate and hostility
  • How to avoid making certain situations worse
  • Why it's critical we model masculine behavior for our boys and girls


JP DINNELL


Guys, as you know, we've had just about the entire Echelon Front team on over the past month or so and I couldn't be more excited to introduce you to one of their lead instructors and my friend, JP Dinnell.

He spent nearly a decade with the SEAL teams and served in three combat deployments, his most recent with Task Unit Bruiser in Ramadi under the command of Jocko Willink. There he served as point man, machine gunner and lead sniper for Delta Platoon opposite of Chris Kyle.

Upon return from Iraq, helped rebuild and enhance the SEAL training programs into the highly effective programs they are today. Since then, he has become a lead instructor with Echelon Front helping leaders and communities enhance their organizations and companies.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/187

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Oct 12, 2018

It's likely in the not-so-distant-past you've allowed your emotions to get the better of you. It's easy to do so in the heat of the moment. We've all been there. Today, I share a very effective 5-step formula for owning your emotions more effectively.

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Oct 10, 2018

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about overcoming past wrongdoings, finding male friends, the difference between ego and pride, and whether or not we should care about what people think of us.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Oct 9, 2018

So many men believe that the terms purpose and profit are mutually exclusive - that for one to exist, the other can't. That just isn't the case. In fact, when you learn to align your purpose and passion with the ability to make a profit, you have a greater ability to impact the world in a positive way.

Today, I am joined by the founder of Black Rifle Coffee Company, Evan Hafer, to talk about how he's managed to build such a successful business around what was simply a passion project. We talk about the power of utilizing new media for marketing, finding and speaking to your tribe, sacrificing ego on the altar of business, and how to align purpose, passion, and profit.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

How Evan went from firearms to roasting
How Black Rifle Coffee Company makes and utilizes viral videos
Why interactive marketing is crucial to a business' success
Evan's view on the competition
Defining "great marketing"
Discovering, developing, and speaking to your tribe
Giving birth to a new you
Identifying and letting go of false expectations
Why you have to sacrifice your ego on the altar of business
Why radical transparency is crucial
How to effectively add people into your ecosystem
Why businesses should be less concerned with political correctness
How to recruit new employees effectively
Why you need to differentiate between individuals and the company
Finding and securing funding for your project


EVAN HAFER


My guest today is Evan Hafer and although you may not know his name, most of you listening are familiar with his company, Black Rifle Coffee Company.

He is a former member of the Special Forces and between his multiple combat deployments, he spent time honing his firearm and roasting skills.

When Evan left the service in 2015, he learned how to market and turn his second passion for roasting coffee into not only a fulltime business but a global coffee company that is recognized for their viral irreverent videos and marketing campaigns, and their incredible coffee.

Now, I will be the first to tell you that I don't drink coffee myself but when given the chance to connect with Evan, I couldn't pass him up as he's clearly on to something when it comes to building a movement and working to employ our nation's veterans.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/186

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Oct 5, 2018

Every man should live by a code, an operating system by which we will live his life. Without one, it's easy to get lost in the moment and conduct ourselves in a way that's incongruent with the way we view who we are.

Today, I talk about why a code is important, what should be included in your code, and how to write your own.

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Oct 3, 2018

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and answer questions about how to leave a significant legacy, getting over toxic relationships, the law of attraction, the importance of a patriarch in a family, and our obligation to serve in the community.

These questions come from our Patreon members, Iron Council brothers, and Facebook group members.

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Oct 2, 2018

What does it mean to be a complete beast? This is a question my guest, Jack Donovan, attempts to answer in his latest book, appropriately titled, A More Complete Beast. There is a reason the title is likely to resonate with you, as a man. Each of us understands that we are both man and beast.

Today we cover so much about the subject of masculinity including why being a man has to be an intentional choice, the power of what he calls the "conquering eye," how to avoid becoming a victim of victims, and how each and every one of us can become a more complete beast.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • What it means to become a more complete beast
  • Why you have to make an intentional choice to be a man
  • Why men are perceived as a threat to society
  • Why you should challenge yourself as a man
  • The four masculine tactical virtues - strength, courage, mastery, honor
  • Why some people try to redefine words to fit their narrative
  • The power of the "conquering eye"
  • Why it's important to define an honor code for yourself
  • Why you should care about some people's opinions
  • Avoiding become the victims of the victims
  • Sifting through the noise of others
  • Why there is no honor in being a victim, only in overcoming it
  • Why vulnerability is not as powerful as modern society would have you believe
  • Why masculinity is not a mask


JACK DONOVAN

Gentlemen, my guest today is a man a lot of you are familiar with and someone I've had on the podcast before.

His name is Jack Donovan and he is the author of several books on the subject of modernity and masculinity including The Way of Men, A Sky Without Eagles, Becoming a Barbarian, and his latest release, A More Complete Beast.

As you may know, Jack is a fascinating man and probably one you wouldn't expect to hear on this podcast (in fact, I made a joke about Jack, a pagan, and myself, a Mormon, walking into an ax-throwing bar just after this interview). That said, his views on the subject of manliness and masculinity, although controversial, resonate with so many of us because they're spot on and refreshing in a time when more and more of society has a hard time even discussing what it means to be a man.

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Sep 28, 2018

Whether we realize it or not, every single one of us is leaving a legacy. We can do that by default or we can be intentional and deliberate about what we leave behind long after we're dead and gone.

Today, I share a quick recap of our inaugural Legacy event, four strategies for leaving a stronger legacy, and three action items for you to complete in order for you to flush out the type of man you want to be remembered as.

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Sep 26, 2018

In this Ask Me Anything, Kipp Sorensen and I talk influence and leadership, not wrapping up your identity in outside factors, overcoming overwhelm and insecurity, and so much more.

These questions come from our Patreon Members.

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Sep 25, 2018

Everyone once in a while you have the opportunity to sit down and talk with someone like you've known them for years. Although me and my guest today, Pete Roberts, have only known each other for six months or so, we share some core values when it comes to the way we approach our life, our business, and our responsibilities as men.

Today we talk about how arrogance is hurting men, how to instill discipline in your children, the importance of self-checking yourself, and how to set yourself free.


SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • The real deal with being an introvert/extrovert
  • How Jiu-Jitsu translates into life
  • Why you aren't as good as you think you are
  • How your arrogance is hurting you
  • The cycle of hardship and how it creates stronger men
  • The American Dream and how to bring it back
  • How to instill discipline into your children
  • Why brute strength isn't always your ally
  • How to keep kids from going soft
  • The power of "tribalism" and conformity
  • How to create a powerful culture
  • Delegating roles and responsibilities
  • How to effectively use the Pareto principle to produce more
  • How you can tell a lot about people through who associates with them
  • How Decentralized Command can help you win in business in life
  • How to remove your emotions from the equation
  • The importance of self-checking yourself
  • Why you need to get rid of stuff in your life


PETE ROBERTS

My guest today is friend and founder of Origin Maine, Pete Roberts.

I was fortunate enough to join him at his Jiu-Jitsu Immersion Camp a couple weeks ago and, while there, had an opportunity to sit down with him for an off-the-cuff interview about family, business, and life.

This is a man who I really admire and respect not only for his business acumen but the purpose and reasoning behind what he's doing for his family, his employees, and his community.

You've heard me talk about Origin for months. Now you get to meet the man behind the vision and his talk on business and the world.

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Shownotes: https://orderofman.com/184

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Sep 21, 2018

I can think of very few things as important as the role of fatherhood. Unfortunately, too many men are way too willing to step down from the mantle of fatherhood and into the lower tier of "buddy" or "bro."

Today, I share 10 strategies for ensuring you succeed as a father which ultimately means your kids succeed as adults.

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