In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of resilience, in all circumstances, and provides FOUR steps to help men become more resilient. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Show kick-off⠀
(10:40) How can I stop “friending” women because its my comfort zone
(16:00) In seasons of challenge, what mindset shifts have happened for you?
(27:40) I am talking to a girl and I found out that she masturbates. Should I continue to pursue her?
(35:50) How can I help someone with an addiction like alcohol, drugs, or pornography without just telling them that “it’s going to be ok?”
(43:10) What is your advice for a kid’s educational pursuits in light of the recent AI revolution?
(48:38) What are some ideas to get parents and students interested in competing in martial arts competitions?
(57:30) What is the difference between calling a friend forward to be “better” or just minding your own business?
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You already know everything you need to know to achieve your wildest dreams, or at least get on the path to making them a reality. The only question that remains is whether or not you’ll do it. And, that’s a question that has been plaguing millions of men for a very long time – “Will I do what is required to achieve my desires?”
My guest today, former NBA player and current NBA mindset coach, David Nurse, has made a life out of teaching elite-level athletes, execs, and high-achievers how to move from knowing to doing. Today, David and I talk about hidden roadblocks that keep us from success, the 9 different action archetypes and how to move past what keeps you back, the formula for your own success mission, finding intrinsic value in the work you do, why he considers, “the masses to be the asses,” how to use negative thoughts to your advantage, and the life-changing power of taking action.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the definition of a “real man” and discusses the 3 key areas where men should focus. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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Definition of a man: A real man is an adult male who who is on the path to effectively protect, provide, and preside.
To Protect: A man protects his family, his possessions, and his community
To Provide: Provide for basic needs, but also to provide emotional support and be emotionally stable
To Preside: Have a vision and communicate that vision
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Show kick-off⠀
(12:10) How has your relationship with your own ego changed in sobriety?
(17:10) Have you ever thought of creating a similar program to the IC for businesses to implement to increase employee satisfaction and productivity?
(26:15) When someone close to you is being negatively impacted by their own ego, what’s the best way to get them back on track?
(33:20) Have either one of you got dizzy after a intense day of BJJ?
(37:40) I see building trust and rapport like a house of cards. When one simple slip seems to crash the whole thing. How do you get the will to start building that house again rather than walking away from the table?
(44:18) What are your daily non-negotiables and how do you handle being flexible with them when outside circumstances are impacting your ability to execute on them?
(48:20) How would you recommend someone keep moving forward in all areas of their life when one quadrant of life has seasons which require 90 - 100% of their attention?
(51:50) What is the most powerful shift in mindset you guys have experienced/embraced in your lives and how has that played out in your lives? Can you offer recommendations on how others could implement these mindsets?
(56:50) What is your take on 3 banks folding in the past week?
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It’s been said that there isn’t a whole lot of new information under the sun, just new ways of saying it. I don’t know if that’s necessarily true but one thing I know is that my guest today shares some of the most practical and life-transforming messages out there. And, he does it in a way that cuts through the noise and nonsense of modern times.
His name is Dewayne Noel and he is the founder of Dry Creek Wrangler School. Today, Dewayne and I talk about the power of genuineness, building yourself into a person you like, not hate, why the “right to be wrong” is so powerful and liberating, dealing with insecurities, operating in reality, the concept of “cowboy energy,” and other timeless wisdom in disturbing times.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 strategies that we can use, as men, to recognize and processes our emotions in a healthy and effective way. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man, and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Show kick-off⠀
(7:50) Can you provide some time on how to deal with my wife getting too invested in her friends?
(14:20) How do you make a judgment call between stability and gratitude for what you have vs the concern you're settling or playing small?
(25:40) Do you have any advice for someone who has become a caretaker for their spouse due to cancer?
(33:10) What would you personally recommend in dealing with a narcissist father?
(40:40) I am torn between having a “man to man” conversation with my new pastor or biting my tongue, out of respect, after he said some insulting things about our church and congregation, where my family has deep roots.
(46:00) How do you deal with fighting and picking and bickering between your kids?
(55:50) What is/was your stance with the whole mask thing in churches during Covid?
(1:04:20) How do we tackle cognitive dissonance?
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Is the American Dream alive or dead? It’s a question that begs asking but more importantly, how can we each, individually carve out our own piece of it if possible?
These are all questions my guest today, Chris Elise, and I address. Chris was born in France and has since become an American citizen following his dreams as a young boy. Today, we talk about channeling anger for productive outcomes, how to develop a personal renewal of faith, why you need to be cautious of betraying yourself, not getting yourself stuck in a bubble, investing in brotherhood, and pursuing your version of the American Dream.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 tips to help you be more intentional with the words you use to become a more effective communicator. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Show kick-off⠀
(5:00) I am currently working in the family business but I do not enjoy it or see a future there. Should I switch industries for an uncertain job and possibly have to move in with my wife’s parents, or should I look for another company and start something on the side where I can use my skills?
(11:00) What questions should you ask yourself to determine if you are ready to propose to your girlfriend and move toward marriage?
(16:40) How important is it for you to have a partner that challenges you?
(25:00) How to encourage our wives to work on their mindset around anxiety and depression without giving the impression that we think there is something wrong with them?
(41:00) How do you assess how you are performing in certain areas that are hard to measure?
(49:20) I was looking for a woman who is career oriented but found a great girl who has different goals. Am I sacrificing my standard by going out with this girl or is it ok to compromise on this?
(54:20) Do you have any book recommendations for a season of transition that isn’t to “heavy” reading?
(58:00) Any recommendations for setting boundaries when working from home and trying to be an engaged and involved father?
(1:01:40) Is there a happy medium for sacrificing current comfort for future satisfaction?
(1:07:20) How should I deal with rumors in the workplace that aren’t true?
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As men, we’re hardwired to look for problems we see with the environment around us. Unfortunately, too few of us are willing to take the next step and do something about the issues we identify.
My guest today is not that kind of man. His name is Ian Wendt and he’s taking a stand against some of the most polarizing social issues of the day. Today, Ian and I talk about overcoming the opinions of others, when to compromise and when not to, how excellence is the ultimate rebellion, how a man ought to show up in his community, and, ultimately, becoming a man of conviction.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men tend to have an easier time focusing on success in business rather than family and how we can implement some of these “business” systems into our family routine. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(10:40) Is there a way to retain information from podcasts and audio books when I do most of my listening while I am driving and cannot take notes in the moment? Or should I just accept it as entertainment?
(18:00) How do you track how you spend your time, what you are eating, etc.?
(23:40) When my girlfriend informed me that she was pregnant, I reacted poorly. After calming down, I tried to discuss the plan for moving forward but she had already decided to move on from the relationship. I was open to continuing the relationship, but at a minimum want to have a relationship with my son and she is making it very difficult. What is the best way to proceed?
(35:00) What key components have you identified to begin a business? What should you do to be successful?
(43:20) Are you still attending the Baptist church and what difference have you noticed between the Baptist and Mormon church?
(49:20) How much does your faith influence your everyday life and has it grown stronger since you’ve given up alcohol?
(52:40) How do you lead your family spiritually?
(1:01:40) What are some good questions we can ask ourselves to be more effective with journaling?
(1:07:00) After your wife has lost respect for you, can you get it back and how?
Pornography is something that negatively impacts millions of men on a daily basis. And, yet, so few of us know what really goes on behind the scenes of the adult entertainment industry. We hear whisperings of the shadiness and degeneracy, but it continues to permeate just about every fabric of society.
My guest today is Joshua Broome. He is a former adult film star and even named porn star of the year. He spent 6 years in the industry, before fleeing to find himself, warn others about the dangers of pornography, and the message of Christ. Today, we talk about the manipulation that takes place in the porn industry, overcoming the tremendous guilt from poor decisions, how obedience and discipline create freedom, owning your past, lust versus love, and eliminating “contaminants” from our lives.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares the 8 steps that he followed on the path to sobriety. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Show kick-off⠀
(10:40) How can I talk to others about my own struggles with alcohol without referring to myself as an alcoholic and wrapping my identity around that label?
(15:00) How do we maintain our masculine frame with our wives, while still being humble and kind?
(33:30) Do you have advice for starting over in a career and being the best I can be? As well as advice for moving my family across the country?
(39:00) Are there things you would advocate not sharing with your spouse or partner?
(45:20) Describe the difference between today’s Ryan and the Ryan from 6 months ago.
(51:00) What do you do when your managers don’t communicate with you until there is a problem and every idea that you pitch them is always answered with a no?
(1:00:00) What are some ways to come up with a business name?
(1:04:40) How do you not take things personally? For example, when an employee leaves my company. And how can I make sure that more employees don’t leave?
(1:12:30) A lot of times guys are looking for a woman who is “like a bro.” Is this a sign of immaturity and what are those men missing out on?
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All of us have dreams and ambitions but too few of us are willing to act towards those desires. And, even if we are, it’s easy to get derailed, distracted, and side-tracked.
My guest today is one of my favorite authors on the planet. His name is Steven Pressfield. He’s the author of The War of Art, Gates of Fire, The Legend of Bagger Vance, and his newest book, a memoir about his life filled with ups and downs, Govt Cheese.
Today, we talk about infusing soul into our work (including a rebuke of AI technology, ChatGPT), the drive to “make the kill,” good versus bad shame, noble obstacles, why being stuck is often a good sign, and putting your ass where your heart wants to be.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares SIX steps to ensure that you are being “vulnerable” in an appropriate and effective way, through taking ACTION. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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Evaluate two things before you share a vulnerability: a) who are you telling and b) why are you telling them
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(3:40) What are your thoughts on overcoming the shame cycle that you can experience when struggling with a habit you want to kick or a limiting belief you hold?
(15:30) Not a question but a best practice that has been impactful for bring my wife closer to me: If your spouse is a 'Words of Affirmation' partner (5 Love Languages), buy some small cards & write notes about why you love and appreciate them & hide them around the house for her to find at a later time. This has been a wonderful way for me to express my love to my wife and a nice surprise for her when she stumbles upon them.
(19:30) How do you get support and feedback from your tribe of men on deep private issues in your relationship while respecting the privacy of your girlfriend/wife and not exposing her personal stuff?
(28:00) I've read extreme ownership and the follow up book is on my book list, but what are some leadership courses or programs that you would recommend?
(33:30) How do you maintain your frame with your spouse, but at the same time, being humble and patient and kind.
(45:40) If you choose to put a man in your circle and he makes a mistake, is it your responsibility to hear him out?
(52:00) What would you say is your biggest insecurity or insecurities that you’re working on?
(58:50) How do you get over a breakup where you sacrificed everything for that person?
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Anger issues are something a lot of us, as men, deal with – more than would like to admit. And, while most of us are pretty good at disguising our anger, frustration, and resentment, all too often, it’s lying just under the surface ready to expose itself to some unexpecting victim – usually the ones we love most.
I’m joined by my friend, Connor Beaton, author of his newest book Men’s Work: A Practical Guide to Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, and Find Freedom. Today, we discuss what he calls “dysregulated” or erratic behavior and how to reign it in, overcoming the shadow of our fathers, the danger of self-abusive relationships, and why and how we need to become acquainted with our anger.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares three simple steps to ensure that the legacy we pass on to our sons and daughters is a legacy that we desire and can be proud of. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group and Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode Intro
(13:00) How do we save our young men and can you paint the picture of the world we live in if we don’t?
(27:20) How do you sift through the huge pile of self help for men and dial in what works best for you?
(32:00) What are some ways to stay motivated and maintain discipline?
(37:50) what tactics do you use to maintain a healthy mindset?
(41:00) Name something from your youth that is not well known but still affects you today. How does it play into your daily life?
(42:40) what is the best way to be a leader when starting at a new company?
(50:00) How do you define good income in today’s economy?
(55:40) How important is it to have men in your corner when you are going through hardship?
(59:20) How can I bring what I teach to my school health classes to more kids?
(1:03:40) How do you convince your family to create a plan for when things get bad?
(1:08:20) How do you get your heart to catch up to your head?
(1:12:00) How do you reconcile the dichotomy of having people you look up to and seeing them deal with their own struggles?
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Our mind is the most powerful thing we can control. And, yet, if you’re anything like me, you don’t spend nearly enough time training the mind to produce the results you desire. In fact, if things don’t seem to be working well in my life, I tend to be a man who just goes even harder hoping I can drive right through the problems I’m dealing with.
Instead, my guest today, Michael Hyatt, makes the case that the stories and narratives (often subconscious) in our minds actually dictate much of the results we experience. So, today, we dive deep into how to retrain the mind to draft stories that serve us rather than hurt us, the value of listening to the “narrator” of your life, why we should all really listen to the language we’re using, how to interrogate the stories of your life, and create a new, fundamental sense of identity.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares a five-part framework for how you can implement systems and processes to supplement discipline and motivation to help you produce the results you desire. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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