Every single man listening to this podcast sees issues with the current culture. And, yet, far too many men are unwilling to do anything about it. Whether it’s a disdain for current culture commentary or a bad case of apathy, ignoring what we see going on around us isn’t going to lead to anywhere positive.
My guest today, author and podcast host, Andrew Klavan, is a man who is and has been for decades actively engaged in dealing with the decline of our current culture through writing, producing films, and podcast commentary. Today, we talk about rationalization and justification for doing the wrong things, why so many people tap-dance around biological reality, why we’re losing this country through the movies, changing culture through art, when and when not to compromise, and viewing your own life as a work of art.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses his own struggles over the past year, lessons he has learned along the way, and how men can implements those lessons in their own lives. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(3:00) Do you have some suggestions for what to search for to intentionally get their kids around other mentors and peers that enjoy fitness, outside of the team sports environment?
(10:00) Was there any point that you felt that having a blended family didn't work? Do you feel that the attention you give to step children takes away from your biological children?
(26:40) When life becomes challenging, as a leader, what are some things that you guys do to stay calibrated for life’s tougher challenges?
(39:20) In hiring for my business, I have noticed that many applicants will apply, accept an interview, and then not show up for the interview. What does this say about young men in our society?
(46:50) Do you guys have a dedicated date night?
(52:00) What are some strategies for dealing with life’s stressors?
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Am I the only one who isn’t crazy?! Sometimes it feels that way in the insane world we live in but there are millions of men who feel the same as we look around at what’s going on in society from gender ideology, to skirmishes and wars in distant countries, to domestic civil unrest, and everywhere in between.
Today, I’m joined by repeat guest, Zuby, as he’s one of those men speaking sanity into culture today. We talk about everything from finding life’s mission and purpose, to the dangers of AI, how the “crisis of meaning,” is a very dangerous threat, the pitfalls of “credentialism,” why learning to promote yourself is a virtuous endeavor, and walking the line between caring what some people think, but not everyone.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE tips to help ensure that you are not betraying yourself and honoring your commitment to others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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Signs of Self-Betrayal
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(1:40) How can you be tactically courageous?
(4:35) How do you keep emotions out of the equation when making important decisions?
(10:10) Do either of you use Testosterone Replacement Therapy? Where should someone begin?
(20:20) How do you grow a small side business from $10K to $50K?
(34:50) How do you use Facebook analytics to help grow your business?
(41:10) How do you get over the mindset of always trying to prove yourself to those around you?
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There is so much to get distracted by these days. With all of our duties, responsibilities, and obligations, it’s easy to get lost in trivial and meaningless activities and pursuits. But when we learn to eliminate and remove the distractions, we free ourselves to find something truly meaningful to obtain.
My guest today is a master at doing just that. His name is Rudy Reyes. He is a former Marine Recon, author of his book, Hero Living, and host of the FOX hit show, Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test. Today, we talk about the power of a mission, developing the “executive” mindset, the strength of the inner story you tell yourself, how, when, and why to compartmentalize emotion, and going deep on pursuits that matter.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE steps to help to help men attack the challenges that may be holding us back from reaching our goals in life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(3:00) What does the future vision of yourself look like when you are happy with who you are today?
(12:20) What is an unexpected IC-related moment that really stands out to you?
(21:30) What defines a leader? If a man is showing up as he should at home and work, is it possible for him to not be a leader?
(27:30) Can you provide some tips on how we can play the long game but still live in the moment?
(37:40) Is good enough ever good enough?
(44:30) When is it appropriate bring concerns about a boss to a higher-level leader in the organization?
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All of us are interested in finding meaning, purpose, and significance in our lives. And, yet, that all seems to be so elusive for so many. Why is it that some men seem to find their passions early on in life while others seemingly struggle for decades (if not their entire lives) to find the satisfaction they so desperately crave?
My guest today, Jim Shockey, is a man who knows the answer. For decades, he’s followed his passions from journalism, becoming a world-class athlete, building an empire as the “First-Family of Hunting,” and now best-selling novelist. Today, Jim and I talk about dealing with events outside of our control, why a man must have a vision he’s working towards, the concept of self-worth and earned respect, the humility and strength of dealing with loss, and the true meaning of legacy…and how to create it.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses strategies for becoming more clear, precise, and bold - and ultimately more effective - in your communication. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(1:05) What transitions have you faced in your personal leadership or failures that could be seen as a defining moment? In leadership you have choices coming into transition, how do you use your past experiences to create defining moments?
(10:40) What are some methods that we as men can utilize when trying to avoid anger in situations where anger is not the best emotion to bring to the table?
(22:20) All four quadrants of the Battle Plan are important, but is there one that you feel that has a greater impact on all 4? One that when executed extremely well helps define yourself and how you attack the rest?
(26:20) How can I embrace these the more masculine ways of being when they weren’t modeled well for me as a child? What strategies and tactics can I use to awaken the king and warrior in me?
(33:40) What tactics do you use when you must make a decision for your family that not all members may be happy with (e.g., moving)?
(37:00) What are some ways that you have overcome fear in the past and or some fears you are facing today?
(43:00) When considering someone who has wronged me in the past, how do I get to the point where I can hear their name or see them somewhere and not (even briefly) think something negative? Or even hope the best for them and pray they changed for the better?
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So many of us, as men, are operating from a position of scarcity. We’ve wired our brains over decades to constantly crave newer, better, more. Ironically, “more” doesn’t always enhance and enrich our lives. In fact, there is plenty of evidence to suggest that the quest for better actually makes us less happy and less fulfilled.
My guest today is Michael Easter, author of The Comfort Crisis and his latest book, Scarcity Brain. Today, Michael and I cover why we constantly crave more, the dangers inherent in social media, parameters to consider when looking for abundance in our lives, how to strike the balance between contentment with ambition, and how to finally conquer our scarcity brains.
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Every single one of us has a story. We all have a past. And, too many of us live in what we’ve done in the past rather than use it as fuel to propel us into the future. One of the great comeback stories that you may be somewhat familiar with is Phil Robertson’s (from Duck Dynasty) story of perseverance, overcoming extreme hardship, and the path to redemption.
His son and co-star of Duck Dynasty, Willie Robertson, is here to talk with me today about his father’s story of redemption, their new movie, The Blind, why it’s never too late to write the next chapter of your life, digging out of the depths of despair, and overcoming the guilt of past behavior.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(2:00) When breaking a bad habit/addiction, what is better? To focus on eliminating the bad habit for work to replace it with something positive.
(5:00) What are some of the best objectives and tactics that everyone could benefit from implementing, at least once?
(9:00) What are some innovations are taking place inside of the Iron Council to better serve the members?
(12:00) Do you have a daily “mind renewal” practice?
(14:40) If you had a physically crippling condition, how would you continue to contribute to those around you and how would your leadership style change?
(17:20) What is the most pivotal moment in moving on from a divorce? Any advice to shake the lingering regret?
(24:15) How can you work with a narcissist?
(29:00) What did you do that you found helpful in processing through the grief of losing a loved one?
(35:00) How do I help a friend who is struggling, but doesn’t recognize that there is problem?
(39:20) With are the defining moments of your BJJ journey, and how can you implement those lessons in other areas in your life?
(45:25) What are the best books you have read this year?
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Anxiousness, depression, suicide. These are all growing trends with men. And, it’s unfortunate because, with all we know about men’s health (physical, mental, and emotional), why is it that so many of us seem to be struggling now more than ever? Isolation, loneliness, loss of ambition, lack of clarity and goals all contribute to the epidemic that seems to be plaguing so many men.
It doesn’t have to be this way. And, my good friend and author of Building a Non-Anxious Life, John Delony, is here today to tell us how to make it so. We talk about burnout, stress, and numbing behavior, unpacking what value you truly add to the people you care about, how to apply these principles in reality (and practically), why we don’t have “maps” for every situation we encounter and what to do about it, and overcoming a past of extreme guilt and shame for past behavior.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 secrets to building entrepreneurial wealth. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(2:50) Do you have a “bug out” bag and what is in it?
(4:30) What does real ”romantic love” feel like?
(10:40) How can I be a good, present father, when I am deployed or on long term assignment?
(14:30) How can you tell wen you are gaining traction in your life?
(21:00) How do I create congruency between multiple brands that I operate?
(24:00) How do you say “no” to loved ones when you have to take time for self-care?
(28:50) How do I find a purpose? How do I know when I am pursuing the wrong thing?
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With the thousands of men I’ve talked with over the years, it’s evident that building and developing confidence is a huge issue for so many men. And, yet, so many men still struggle with the mindsets and activities required to build that confidence in themselves. Many of them believe you’re either born with it or you won’t ever develop it. That just isn’t true.
And, my guest today, Bradley Richardson, is here to talk about why that is and what to do about it. Today we talk about why men hang on to unimportant, irrelevant issues way too long, how to deal and cope with a loss of control, knowing what you want and never settling, why many men settle for broken women, avoiding becoming a chameleon to others, and how to regain your sense of clarity and confidence.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 tips to help men overcome the challenges of single fatherhood. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(3:10) What are some strategies around implementing the confidence/competence loop?
(13:40) How do you balance out your alone time in a relationship or marriage?
(18:30) What are some strategies for managing a new wife and step kids?
(21:50) How do you approach the topic of death with someone who's health is extremely poor?
(36:00) How should I approach women at the gym who I’m interested in?
(39:00) How do you motivate others to be invested in their work?
(47:40) How do we validate feelings that others have that we don’t agree with?
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All of us agree that the currently political system isn’t working, regardless of where we sit on the political divide. With the federal government consolidating and amassing power, it’s increasingly difficult to see how they’re serving the people instead of the beast it’s become.
But what is the answer? Is there a solution that moves us closer to what America’s founding fathers had envisioned nearly 250 years ago. My guest today, Max Borders, joins us to talk about the concepts in his newest book, Underthrow: How Jefferson’s Dangerous Ideas Will Spark a New Revolution. We talk about what it truly means to be free, the idea of a “national divorce,” where socialized services work and where they go too far, the power of decentralization, how innovation is act of subversion, and the difference between and overthrow and an underthrow to change the world.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 3 steps to help you leverage your strengths to achieve more and serve others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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Join the Iron Council brotherhood. Membership open for a limited time.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos are together “in-person” for a rare occasion to take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(4:00) What things would you recommend men do when they are feeling lonely?
(11:30) How has 9/11 impacted you and how do you think it has impacted the country?
(16:50) As men, should we share our most intimate struggles with our significant others?
(22:50) Do either of you experience a shame spiral?
(26:00) How can I start a fundraising operation without taking time away from my work or other obligations?
(30:00) I am curious about your opinion on how to get people to buy into a mission?
(34:50) When you started OOM, how long was it until you created a steady revenue stream?
(39:30) What can I do to help gain trust back after my wife engaged in an emotional affair?
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If you’re a father (or plan to be one), I know how it is to feel completely inadequate to be the type of dad your children need you to be. Self-doubt, challenging life circumstances, and past emotional trauma all combine to create the perfect storm of insecurity in raising your sons and daughters right.
My guest today is New York Times Bestselling Author, Gary John Bishop and today he joins me to talk about his latest book, Grow Up: Becoming the Parent Your Kids Deserve. We cover such a wide array of topics in this conversation including why you should question your past and how to heal from it, the value of “empathetic intelligence” and how to use it effectively with your kids, how responsibility supersedes truthfulness, overcoming shame and guilt from parenting mistakes, and what it means to truly forgive someone.
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