Join Ryan Michler as he explores the distinction between masculinity and manliness, a conversation that goes beyond mere semantics. Drawing insights from our social media followers, he discusses how masculinity often encompasses inherent traits like dominance and competitiveness, while manliness is about applying these traits through cultural, moral, and ethical lenses.
By sharing various perspectives and definitions, Ryan illustrates that masculinity is a birthright, but manliness must be earned through responsible and positive actions. This conversation encourages a broader discussion on how men can effectively cultivate these attributes to benefit themselves and others.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) - Episode Intro
(00:40) - Introduction to Masculinity vs. Manliness Discussion
(03:24) - Listener Quotes on Masculinity vs. Manliness
(04:27) - Defining Masculinity and Manliness
(05:28) - Masculinity as Biological Traits
(06:38) - Manliness as Earned Characteristics
(07:35) - Good Man vs. Good at Being a Man
(08:22) - The Importance of the Distinction
(09:38) - Masculinity as an Amoral Tool
(10:21) - Appropriate vs. Misuse of Aggression
(11:47) - Manliness: Applying Masculine Traits for Good
(13:14) - Final Thoughts on Masculinity vs. Manliness
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This episode examines how faith and personal values help navigate adversity, highlighting the role of community support and leadership during crises. It explores the importance of aligning actions with principles, drawing on stoicism and religious teachings, and emphasizes the need for honorable individuals to take the lead.
The conversation touches on how societal expectations affect our view of high-value individuals, advocating for deeper connections and critical thinking in relationships. The discussion also delves into modern relationship dynamics, addressing topics like extreme feminism, hookup culture, and the importance of strong male role models.
The episode encourages fostering supportive environments that promote respect, growth, and understanding in relationships.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
(00:00) Disaster Relief Fundraising and Q&A
(12:47) Faith, Values, and Principles
(21:18) Standards for High-Value Men
(34:39) Teaching Boys to Control Rage
(48:19) Respecting Men and Building Influence
(52:47) Respecting and Supporting Male Partners
(57:26) Changing Dynamics in Modern Relationships
(01:07:13) Supporting Disaster Relief Efforts
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Men, we all have scars. Some are visible. Some are not. Some are physical. And, some are mental and emotional. Regardless of the scars you carry around, the stories behind them have the ability to shape you, for better or worse.
My guest today, 101st Airborne Division Combat Veteran, J.R. Martinez, has easily-seen external scars. But rather than use those scars as an excuse to self-destruct, Martinez has, instead, decided to use the stories and the lessons he’s learned on the road to recovery to make himself a better man. Today, J.R. and I talk about deliberately changing your perspective on life, what he calls, “God Winks,” and how to use them effectively in your life, how to get over perceived emasculation and make yourself into more, crafting a new identity for yourself when the old one is ripped from you, and how a man effectively deals with persecution from others.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) Relationship Challenges and Parenthood Success
(04:21) Journey to Parenthood and Self-Discovery
(09:31) Setting Boundaries With Overprotective Mothers
(14:04) Breaking Generational Patterns
(26:33) Recognizing Signs and Seizing Opportunities
(36:15) Navigating Life's Challenges and Opportunities
(40:32) Perspective Shift Through Life's Challenges
(50:58) Surviving a Traumatic Military Incident
(58:02) Embracing Hope and Optimism
(01:09:26) Overcoming Challenges in Public Eye
(01:15:05) Finding Hope Through Unexpected Interactions
(01:24:43) Embracing Vulnerability and Healing
(01:29:32) Navigating Relationships and Overcoming Trauma
(01:33:30) Embracing Imperfections and Growth
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Unlock the secret to powerful leadership by harnessing the strength of emotional intelligence. Society may often cast aside traditional masculine traits, but we're here to reclaim them by understanding what it truly means to embody stability and reliability. This episode highlights the critical role emotional intelligence plays in being a grounding presence for our loved ones and colleagues. We explore how mastering our emotions allows us to remain composed during life's toughest moments, transforming us into the unwavering "rock" that others can lean on.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:39) Restoring Masculinity Through Emotional Intelligence
(08:19) Developing Emotional Intelligence Through Competence
(14:23) Building Trust Through Honest Communication
(25:47) Emotional Stability and Leadership in Men
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Have you ever felt frustrated by digital communication platforms? In this episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore a structured path to personal growth that cuts through tech barriers. They emphasize self-reliance, positive messaging, and building supportive networks.
Drawing on Chris Williamson’s podcast with Dr. Laith Al-Shawaf, they explore how emotions like fear and love guide us. They also share Josh's story of resilience and highlight practical advice for navigating relationships, setting boundaries, and overcoming personal challenges like alcoholism.
Tune in for actionable insights on growth and self-improvement.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:38) Sense of Urgency and Intentionality
(09:35) Emotions and Their Physiological Responses
(13:52) Chemicals and Emotions in Relationships
(19:53) Parenting and Protecting Children's Minds
(25:47) Empowering Children With Boundaries
(32:10) Overcoming Alcoholism and Self-Reflection
(43:44) Navigating Relationships With Ex-Wives and Girlfriends
(56:25) Valuing Relationships and Self-Worth
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This one is going to be a different one for you guys today. For the third time in the history of Order of Man in nearly a decade, we have a woman joining us on the podcast. Kelsi Sheren is a good friend of mine, and she is not afraid to pull punches. We’ve had some very public disagreements about the concept of “Vulnerability,” and “Feminism.” And, I thought, if we’re going to take this movement to the next level, all of us (myself included) need to take ourselves outside our comfort zones.
Today, Kelsi and I discuss masculine energy in women, where the idea of vulnerability falls flat, the difference between feminism and “modern-day feminism,” overcoming fear, why expectations of others just set you up for failure, why honesty and humility may be a better approach relative to vulnerability, where woman and men fail each other and themselves, and so much more.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(02:38) Masculine and Feminine Energy Discussion
(15:27) Navigating Vulnerability and Strength
(19:50) Desire for Vulnerability and Growth
(25:56) Taking Action Towards Personal Growth
(29:10) Building Trust and Transparent Communication
(35:48) Importance of Clear Communication Expectations
(42:22) Therapeutic Coaching Through Transparent Communication
(46:59) Navigating Men's Mental Health and Feminism
(53:50) Modern Feminism and Victim Mentality
(01:03:23) Empowering Women to Find Purpose
(01:08:24) Navigating Personal Growth Through Adversity
(01:15:36) Empowering Men Through Female Perspective
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What if mastering your emotions could make you not just a better man, but a stronger leader too? This week on Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unveils the seven signs of masculine maturity, essential for any man aiming to elevate his personal growth and leadership skills. Starting with an inspiring reading of Rudyard Kipling's timeless poem "If," Ryan sets a powerful tone for the first topic: emotional regulation. Through heartfelt personal stories, he reveals the transformative power of understanding and managing your emotions, enabling you to become a more effective protector, provider, and leader within your community and family.
He covers effective communication, emphasizing boldness, assertiveness, and taking full responsibility. It stresses self-care—physically, mentally, and emotionally—as a form of respect. Dressing well reflects pride and respect for your environment.
Ryan explores setting assertive boundaries with respect, maintaining composure in stressful situations, and improving relationships through confidence. Finally, it highlights being service-oriented as a mark of maturity, illustrated by a story about helping at a highway accident to show readiness to serve others.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:38) Signs of Masculine Maturity
(14:56) Principles of Masculine Maturity
(26:00) Establishing Assertive Boundaries With Respect
(29:19) The Importance of Service in Maturity
(35:26) Preview Call for Iron Council
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In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the serious implications of an East Coast maritime strike. They delve into the importance of vigilance in adapting to technological disruptions and the necessity of presence in fostering strong relationships.
Drawing parallels between martial arts and life, Ryan emphasizes consistency in personal growth, whether navigating economic uncertainties or emotional resilience post-divorce. Additionally, they explore the complex dilemmas of voting in today's political climate and share practical advice on active listening, setting boundaries, and maintaining emotional stability.
Join Ryan and Kipp for thought-provoking insights and actionable tips for thriving in every area of life.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) East Coast Maritime Strike Threat
(06:04) Technology, Adaptability, and Learning Opportunities
(17:11) Trump, Policy, and the Establishment
(31:10) Dating After Marriage
(35:15) Learning and Growth After Divorce
(39:16) Embracing Life's Hardships for Growth
(50:51) Understanding and Communication in Relationships
(54:42) Mastering Active Listening and Presence
(01:02:22) Prioritizing Others for Self-Validation
(01:10:09) Setting Boundaries and Emotional Regulation
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Testosterone (T) is a hormone all men are familiar with at this point. It’s become a very hot topic and, whether or not to increase testosterone naturally or with Testosterone Replace Therapy (TRT), has become an increasingly debated question. Testosterone is recognized as the hormone to improve energy, muscle mass, overall health and vitality, and personal performance.
My guest today, Simmo, is a man who has become immersed in the world of improving testosterone rates in men and male optimization. Today, we talk about the key strategies of boosting testosterone naturally, at what point a man should consider TRT, what function of the body, if not improved, hinders the processing of testosterone, how your workout might be hindering the production of T, what role the nervous system plays in hormone optimization, and how a brotherhood of men is an often-overlooked factor of overall male health.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) Boosting Testosterone Naturally
(06:58) Navigating Masculinity After Medical Procedure
(13:01) Understanding Testosterone Levels and Nuances
(25:06) Holistic Health Approach for Men
(33:06) Navigating Social Stigma and Training Intensity
(43:03) Optimizing Training and Sleep Quality
(54:46) Improving Sleep and Male Relationships
(59:53) Syncing Up for Health Benefits
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Transform your habits and reclaim control over your life! In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler offers a powerful roadmap to identify and overhaul negative behaviors by drawing on the wisdom of "The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg and "Atomic Habits" by James Clear. He dissects the three-step formula for understanding habits, focusing on cues, behaviors, and rewards. By recognizing the triggers and rewards that fuel habits like smoking, drinking, or anger, you'll learn how to replace them with healthier, more productive behaviors that align with your goals.
Ryan discusses eight pivotal questions to guide you through moments of weakness, aiding you in staying true to your values and commitments. Whether it's about maintaining fidelity to your spouse or adhering to personal beliefs, these questions are designed to fortify your resolve and help you build habits that serve your long-term well-being.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) - Episode Intro
(00:40) - Introduction to Habit Mastery
(08:00) - Identifying and Understanding Temptation
(22:08) - Strategies to Combat Immediate Gratification
(35:53) - Preview of Upcoming Episode: Hormone Optimization
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In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan and Kipp break down the $35 trillion U.S. national debt, explaining its impact and how each American owes $135,000. They hold political leaders accountable and call for sustainable spending. They also discuss the need for disruption to achieve personal growth, offering tips for early recognition and setting boundaries in relationships.
In leadership, they highlight transparency and turning arrogance into inspiration. For fathers, they suggest activities to bond with homeschooled children, and provide resources like Iron Council to help you grow. Tune in for insights on financial, personal, and relational success.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) US National Debt and Spending Crisis
(16:07) Breakdowns and Breakthroughs
(26:06) Navigating Boundaries in Relationships
(40:49) Building Relationships Through Service
(48:00) Power of Transparency in Leadership
(00:06:06) Engaging Activities to Support Homeschooling
(01:05:09) Discovering Your Path to Manhood
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So many of us are so easily distracted and sedated by our temptation of choice and the next bright, shiny object. But my guest today makes the case for why building a personal and professional plan that will last centuries leads him to make more virtuous decisions and, not only serves him but generations to come.
His name is Pete Roberts and he is the founder of Origin USA, a 100% made in America manufacturing company built in the backwoods of Maine. Today, we talk about the power of purpose, what it means to be a “cowboy entrepreneur,” how and why we distract and sedate ourselves, why hopelessness and powerlessness are a crippling combination, and doing the right thing for the right reasons.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(03:50) CEO Challenges With Growth and Leadership
(15:24) The Power of Purpose in Business
(27:22) Financial Planning and Entrepreneurship
(31:42) Challenges of Scaling Business Growth
(39:46) Long-Term Vision for Business Success
(47:00) Building a Brand With Purpose
(01:00:07) Friendship and Commitment to Growth
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Unlock the secrets to becoming the man you aspire to be with actionable insights from our latest episode. Ryan Michler delves into the importance of having a clear vision and ask the critical question, "Who do I need to become?" Discover the necessity of specificity in your goals and learn that success is built on deliberate, consistent actions rather than mere luck.
Ryan discusses the concept of the "integrity gap" and shares real-life examples that illustrate how your actions, not just your desires, shape your identity. This is a call to take responsibility and actively work towards bridging the gap between where you are and where you want to be.
In the second part, Ryan explores the essence of masculinity and self-improvement through personal authenticity and deliberate decision-making.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:50) Becoming the Man You Want
(11:43) Defining Masculinity and Self-Improvement
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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen as they explore a myriad of topics ranging from cultural issues to personal growth. This Ask Me Anything episode kicks off with an intriguing look at tribalism and the polarization of social viewpoints, inspired by Matt Walsh's documentary premiere in Nashville.
They tackle controversial subjects like transgenderism and racism, emphasizing the need for diverse perspectives and critical thinking beyond political and ideological lines. Discover the importance of balancing conservative ideologies within mainstream discussions to foster a more inclusive dialogue.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) Cultural Tribes and Challenging Conversations
(08:33) Internal Growth and Overcoming Challenges
(20:50) Navigating Relationship Conflict With Emotional Intelligence
(25:14) Family Preparedness and Conflict Resolution
(39:01) Personal Growth and Responsibility
(44:57) Cultivating a Godly Relationship
(56:01) Personal Growth and Conflict Resolution
(01:09:03) Jiu-Jitsu Progression and Humility
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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen as they explore a myriad of topics ranging from cultural issues to personal growth. This Ask Me Anything episode kicks off with an intriguing look at tribalism and the polarization of social viewpoints, inspired by Matt Walsh's documentary premiere in Nashville.
They tackle controversial subjects like transgenderism and racism, emphasizing the need for diverse perspectives and critical thinking beyond political and ideological lines. Discover the importance of balancing conservative ideologies within mainstream discussions to foster a more inclusive dialogue.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) Cultural Tribes and Challenging Conversations
(08:33) Internal Growth and Overcoming Challenges
(20:50) Navigating Relationship Conflict With Emotional Intelligence
(25:14) Family Preparedness and Conflict Resolution
(39:01) Personal Growth and Responsibility
(44:57) Cultivating a Godly Relationship
(56:01) Personal Growth and Conflict Resolution
(01:09:03) Jiu-Jitsu Progression and Humility
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Over 10 years, one of the most common messages I get is a strong desire for men to find their calling, so to speak. Studies often suggest that upwards of 70% of men are dissatisfied in their work and general fulfillment in life. But it’s a challenge to find something you’re interested in and turn it into a profitable and lucrative career that brings both a sense of purpose and financial prosperity.
My guest today, Michael Hunter, is a man who is doing exactly that. Introduced to hunting at the age of 18 and a self-proclaimed glutton for food, Michael has found a way to merge the world of hunting and culinary excellence into some that brings him both a deep sense of satisfaction and provided he and his family a way of life. Today, we talk about the painstakingly slow path to progress, the importance of asking for exactly what you want, standing for what’s right in the face of bad actors, when luck, God’s grace, and hard work collide, and how you can find your path through the passion you build.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
- (00:00) Episode Intro
- (01:30) From Hunter to Chef
- (10:22) The Chef's Journey Into Cooking
- (18:53) Cooking Techniques for Game Meat
- (25:27) Hunter-Chef's Journey in Teaching Cooking
- (35:45) Restaurant Protest Leads to Viral Fame
- (40:39) Ethical Hunting and Sustainability in Cooking
- (48:54) Controversy Surrounding Hunting and Cooking
- (56:01) Cookbook Author's Journey and Future Plans
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Do you ever wonder why comparing yourself to others can sometimes leave you feeling deflated and stuck? In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unravels the comparison trap and its profound impact on personal development and self-confidence. He tackles the issue head-on by exploring how negative comparisons create feelings of inadequacy and impede progress.
Listen in as Ryan shares three practical strategies to turn those comparisons into powerful sources of inspiration and motivation. By recognizing the achievements of others and understanding that success isn’t a zero-sum game, we can transform envy into admiration and propel ourselves forward.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:45) Overcoming the Comparison Trap
(08:48) Navigating Comparison and Humility in Leadership
(23:10) Embracing Growth Through Peer Learning
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In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler addresses masculinity and its role in society and its significance from politics to personal growth. Ryan emphasizes the virtues of strength, courage, and fortitude, balanced with empathy and grace. Learn how to graciously accept compliments, reflect on personal concerns, and approach challenges with a solution-oriented mindset.
From the importance of masculine virtues to the political spectrum’s impact on these ideals, Ryan discusses what it means to embody true masculinity today.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:43) Starting a Business
(08:44) Crafting Business Stories for Success
(17:29) Navigating Masculinity and Pride Acceptance
(24:06) Learning to Accept Compliments and Gratitude
(28:42) Embracing Masculine Virtues Without Compromise
(34:08) Exploring Masculinity in Politics and Society
(45:07) Parenting, Relationships, and Personal Development
(52:09) Navigating Offense and Saving People
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Empathy. It’s likely a word that conjures up unnecessary softness or, even weakness. But there’s nothing weak about being empathetic and it certainly does mean you need to allow others to wallow in their own self-pity or walk all over you. In fact, when utilized correctly, empathy can be a powerful tool for realizing your full potential and influencing others positively along their own path.
My guest today, David Waldy, joins me to make the case for men adding a level of what he calls fierce empathy into their lives. We talk about what empathy really means, why we lie to others and ourselves, how to stop lying, learning to heal yourself strategically and tactically, borrowing from other people’s success, and how to craft and utilize a new identity for who you are.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:42) Fierce Empathy and Recovering Nice Guys
(08:36) Truth and Self-Deception
(22:13) Healing and Self-Discovery Process
(28:15) Defining and Uncovering True Identity
(34:10) Modeling Behavior for Personal Growth
(46:33) Building Trust Through Empathy and Understanding
(53:31) Connecting Through Conversations
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Feeling down doesn't always mean you're clinically depressed, but how do you distinguish between the two? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan tackles the rising issue of depression among men, shedding light on the feelings of sadness, loneliness, and inadequacy many experience due to life challenges such as divorce, addiction, loss, and medical complications.
He unpacks eight practical strategies designed to help you navigate these emotional waters and improve your mental well-being, with a reminder that seeking professional help is crucial if you're dealing with chronic or clinical depression.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:40) Understanding and Combatting Depression in Men
(13:36) Strategies for Emotional Wellness
(23:53) Embracing Hobbies and Avoiding Isolation
(33:29) Overcoming Challenges and Choosing Productivity
(42:34) Joining the Iron Council for Men
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Tune in to this week's Ask Me Anything as Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle the nuances of preparing for parenthood and balancing personal health with professional success. They share practical tips on maintaining focus and building a strong family foundation, together with insights on teaching essential skills to children.
The conversation also ventures into the realm of handling sexual temptations and fostering intimacy in relationships, offering disciplined approaches and open communication strategies. Whether you're a parent, partner, or professional, this episode will resonate and inspire transformative action in your life.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:50) Maintaining Motivation and Avoiding Echo Chambers
(13:57) Preparing for Parenthood
(25:27) Exploring Personal Insecurities
(31:08) Understanding and Addressing Insecurities
(38:59) Starting a Family and Overcoming Challenges
(42:53) Teaching Skills and Parenting Values
(56:32) Navigating Sexual Temptations and Relationship Intimacy
(01:09:16) Building Masculinity and Community
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Whenever I (or one of my guests) introduces the concept of male initiation, it’s met with skepticism, at best, and a level of immense disdain and vitriol, at worst. But why is it that men struggle so much with the concept of initiation, that is to say that a man must learn from other men what it means to be a man and be held accountable to maintain his moral duty to protect, provide, and preside?
My guest today, Jake Hamilton, makes the case for male initiation drawing on ancient initiations in some of the most remote locations on the planet. We talk about how to harness a man’s sexual desire towards productive outcomes, what the lowest form of a man’s identity is, where the patriarchy falls short, integrating your “shadow” (something Jung unpacks deeply), the difference between working toward the greater good and the common good, and how a man answers his own internal desire to be respected and desired.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(04:00) The Crisis of Masculinity Today
(17:21) Initiating Boys Into Manhood Through Presence
(23:00) Navigating Masculinity and Sexuality in Society
(34:51) Unpacking Personal Trauma and Behavior
(41:11) Reclaiming Self-Worth and Value
(49:05) The Power of Self-Discovery and Legacy
(01:01:43) Embracing the Lover Archetype
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Can you spot the difference between being nice and being kind? Many people mistakenly view niceness as a surefire way to a woman's heart, but in this week's Friday Field Notes latest episode Ryan Michler reveals why this approach often leads to manipulation rather than attraction.
Ryan shares practical tips on clearly stating your intentions, understanding what women truly seek in a partner, and cultivating genuine romantic connections. Whether you're single and struggling with the friend zone or feeling like a roommate in your marriage, his insights will help you create and rebuild intimacy in your relationships.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:43) Avoid Friend Zone, Rebuild Intimacy
(15:26) Assertive Romantic Relationships and Boundaries
(23:17) Mastering the Dating Game
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In this no-holds-barred "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan and Duane dissect the controversy surrounding the Olympics, emphasizing the importance of meritocracy and performance. The conversation then shifts to the political landscape, urging men to step up and actively engage in their communities. They offer practical advice on building a strong work ethic and finding purpose, reminding listeners that discipline leads to freedom.
Finally, they delve into matters of faith, encouraging listeners to trust their gut and act on righteous impulses. It's a raw, unfiltered discussion that challenges listeners to embrace their masculinity and take charge of their lives.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(00:42) Controversy Over Breakdancing in Olympics
(11:36) Defining Masculinity and Bold Convictions
(17:58) Military Leadership and Transition Discussion
(23:20) Political Engagement and Future Vision
(32:57) Developing Long-Term Goals and Work Ethic
(38:08) Surrounding Yourself With High Achievers
(47:02) Divine Intervention and Listening to God
(54:49) Honesty and Accountability in Relationships
(01:02:50) Implementing Concepts in Iron Council
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What does it take to be a tough, rugged, bastard? And, is it something a man should strive to become? My guest today is a retired marine and after spending 20 years in special operations in the Marine Corps, has gone on to lead training for all Marine Raiders (after being disbanded after WWII) and developing many of the systems and leadership protocols for some of the most elite fighting members of our modern-day military.
His name is John Dailey and, today, we talk about the future of combat, modern-day enlistment challenges for the US military, where mental toughness comes from and how to develop it, the issues with “moral injury” as it relates to PTSD, the rules of combat, standard operating procedures, and rules of engagement that hinder our efficacy, and how and why every man needs to become a tough, rugged bastard.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Episode Intro
(04:02) Ethics and Challenges of Combat
(18:47) Reflections on Combat Experience and Morality
(26:26) History and Creation of Marine Raiders
(33:04) Special Operations Deployment and Challenges
(43:21) Role and Challenges in Marine Raiders
(53:04) Recruitment Challenges in Military Forces
(56:23) Challenges and Standards in Training
(01:07:58) Appreciation for Military Service
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