Regret is often used to self-sabotage and retreat into sorrow and victimization. But it doesn’t have to be that way. In fact, regret can be leveraged as a powerful tool to accomplish your most challenging objectives moving forward. Unfortunately, too many men wallow in regret and defeat instead of learning how to tap into their massive and almost unlimited potential.
Today, I am joined by threepeat guest, Jon Acuff, to talk about regret, potential, goal planning, and success. We discuss pursuing small versus large goals, the power of becoming what Jon calls a, “handle maker,” using discernment with regards to the self-development information we consume, the proper response to the, “must-be-nice,” crowd, why you should avoid calling your problems, your problems, and so much more.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FIVE steps to help men understand the differences between contentment and ambition and how both can exist simultaneously in our lives. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(4:00) How do I know when to start looking for the right woman to settle down with?
(11:00) When does a man truly know that he is a man?
(13:40) What does it mean to “rest well?”
(19:00) How can I minimize the negative consequences on my children as a result of divorce?
(31:20) How important is weightlifting to your health compared to other areas of fitness?
(37:00) What is the Iron Council’s 5-year vision?
(40:00) How do you both stay accountable to your vision and battle plan without being part of a battle team?
(51:20) How do you get in the mindset of accepting where you are in life?
(59:20) What are some good marketing skills I could learn to increase my value to the company?
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Some of the most common questions we receive (and this has been consistent over the past 8 years) is how to make a marriage work. And, with the breakdown of my own marriage over the past year, it’s clear to me more than ever how hard the union between two people can be. But that doesn’t mean it’s impossible and it doesn’t mean it isn’t worth pursuing.
The benefits of marriage are plenty including the shared responsibilities, the fulfillment found in service to another, and the growth that must take place in order for a marriage to work. Today, I’m joined by Seth and Melanie Studley who focus on helping couples work through their marital challenges and create a thriving relationship. We talk getting back to the basics, the growth vs. fixed mindset, why men must cast vision, common mistakes in marriage, how to recognize the tests of women, and so much more.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 factors to consider when establishing other boundaries with others. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(5:30) What do so many men seem to have problems with women?
(12:40) Where do you recommend keeping firearms in the house?
(20:30) Why didn’t Kipp call you out for your excessive drinking?
(29:20) How do you, as a man, balance apathy and emotional availability?
(49:30) What provisions have you put in place for your family in case you were to meet an untimely end?
(59:30) What are some tips on leading in the workplace?
(1:08:30) What are some strategies for dealing with a narcissist in the workplace?
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With roughly 97% of the population eating meat, it’s mind-blowing that 85% of the American meat supply chain is in the hands of four corporations, two of which are foreign. What’s also disturbing is the deliberate manipulation of beef prices, the rise in food intellectual property (IP) in the form of GMO food solutions and fake meat products grown in a lab, and the regulatory constraints placed on small cattle ranches trying to make our food supply chain more robust and secure.
My guest today, AJ Richards, is leading the charge when it comes to a new way to deliver beef to the American consumer directly from the ranches themselves in order to cut out the excess cost, regulation, manipulation, and build out a stronger, more diverse supply of food. Today, we talk about the crumbling food supply chain, our import to export dilemma, overcoming the monopolies of food producers, why homesteading in America is once again growing, and so much more.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 6 steps to help us come back after a loss. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(2.55) Do you guys “every day carry?” And if so, what do you carry?
(8:40) What is your go-to tactic to switch from work mode to dad mode?
(18:40) How should I approach my relationship with a new step daughter (toddler) who spends every other weekend with her father?
(29:30) In leadership, are you guided to lead by standards or principles? Do you guys think one is better to use as a baseline over the other?
(42:20) What is the best training to do on days that I cant attend a BJJ class?
(47:20) Do you have any tips for someone who struggles to get along with other men and tends to get prideful and become a lone wolf?
(1:02:30) Do you have any tips for keeping a stoic mindset when it feels like you can’t catch a break?
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It’s clear by now the stigma that once surrounded psychedelics has lost some of its power. With the use of psychedelics like Psilocybin, Ayahuasca, and even LSD becoming much more mainstream through personalities like Joe Rogan and all we hear about “plant-medicine,” from some of the most influential people today, it’s time we all start taking a closer look at the ins and outs, pros and cons, and features and setbacks of the world of psychedelics.
Today I am joined by Matt Zemon, a Master in Medical Science in both psychology and neuroscience, and author of his latest book, Psychedelics for Everyone. I am naturally a bit of a skeptic so I took that approach on a topic I admittedly don’t know a whole lot about. We discuss why the stigma around psychedelics and how did that come to be, the use of psychedelics to treat shame, blame, and guilt and other symptoms of “treatment resistant PTSD,” how psychedelics have been used to help people overcome crippling alcohol and drug addiction, the spiritual journey one may discover on his exploration into these medicines, side effects to consider, and how many men are using psychedelics to expand their consciousness.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the concept of “leadership eclipsing” and breaks down why we need to and how we can avoid this. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen, joining live from France, take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(8:00) Is there a specific book that you revisit every year because of the enjoyment that it brings?
(12:40) How can I determine when setting boundaries is being selfish?
(26:20) How can a man lead a loved one through their anger and anxiety issues?
(35:20) What do you feel are the hallmark traits of an effective leader?
(47:40) How can I help support a buddy who is in a toxic relationship with his girlfriend and her family?
(54:20) Considering the increasing confusion around gender roles, what are some future potential challenges you see for masculine men?
(57:20) How do you know when you are following God’s will?
(1:03:30) What strategies have you found to discourage young kids from being aggressive?
(1:07:20) What are your thoughts on online dating vs. meeting people face to face?
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The most powerful benefit of this podcast is that each and every week, we get to listen to ultra-successful men, learn what makes them tick, hear which pitfalls to avoid, and simply apply those beneficial lessons into our own lives. And, my guest today is someone imminently qualified to impart his hard-fought wisdom on both the professional and personal front. He is serial entrepreneur, Vic Keller.
And, today, we talk about the power of utilizing our instinct (and how it can be developed), intentionality, and innovation to create long-lasting results in our lives. We also cover the difference between gurus and guides (and how to spot each), a simple formula for how the human operating system works, why you should strongly consider hiring mentors, how to decide what defines you, and so much more.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why it’s important to break the rules occasionally and provides SEVEN factors to consider when deciding whether its time to break the rules. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen, joining live from France, take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(12:20) How do I deal with my wife making decisions behind my back and becoming irritated when I bring it up to her?
(23:00) Are there resources available to help a teenager get ton the path?
(25:00) What is your take on “staying together for the kids?”
(36:00) How do you flip the switch between “I want to get my wife back” and “I’m ready to start dating again?”
(45:00) How do I deal with cutting toxic in-laws loose from interacting with your children?
(59:00) How do you guard against burnout and fatigue as you are working to become the man you are meant to be?
(1:06:00) Any recommended reading on emotional intelligence?
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We’re all familiar with the Warrior Archetype. Many men listening to this podcast embody what it means to be a warrior. But if we are exclusively warriors in our approach to life, we can easily overlook the more gentle, meeker virtues that make us well-rounded men.
My guest today is a man intimately familiar with the balance between the lion and the lamb, the warrior and the poet. His name is John Lovell and he is the author of The Warrior Poet Way: A Guide to Living Free and Dying Well. Today, John and I talk about striking the balance between both, how we’re neither exclusively warrior or exclusively poet, how to become not just dangerous in the physical realm but also dangerous in our virtue, how humility heals everything, overcoming a crisis of identity, and why if there is nothing to protect there is no need for men, and the proper time and place for displaying vulnerability.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 8 strategies to help us navigate challenging and uncertain times in life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen, joining live from France, take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(4:30) How can I lead my family in terms of “vibe,” mood, or energy?
(11:50) How do you reconcile having your individual sovereignty being a man without coming off as selfish?
(19:00) Since writing the book “Sovereignty,” how has your view of the concept changed?
(29:40) what are some strategies to help lead our wives through a hard miscarriage, while having the sovereignty to address our own issues?
(36:20) How has the time with your children been since separating from your wife?
(44:00) How have you dealt with burnout and continued to push through to reach your objectives?
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We’re all tempted, at times, to cut corners, to take the path of least resistance, and to do work less than we’re capable of doing. It’s easy to do in this easily distracted, overly-stimulated environment we all operate in. My guest today, former Navy SEAL, Remi Adeleke is a prime example of doing work right despite our desire to take the easy route.
Author of his latest book, Chameleon, Hollywood director and consultant, and TV reality show star, Remi knows what he wants, what he doesn’t, and how to pursue everything with an eye towards exceptionalism and mastery. Today, we talk about not becoming a “one-note guy,” getting over Fear of Missing Out when declining opportunities, why writing is one of the best ways to articulate your thoughts, why it’s a mistake to write off the success of others, and timeless advice he learned from his mom like the mantra, “Whatever you do, do it right.”
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR strategies to help men become better fathers and shed the baggage handed down by our own fathers. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(2:50) Is there a point where you decide that your objective is not working and it should be adjusted or is that an individual decision?
(6:20) Can you share your thoughts on building and following through on a first-time Battle Plan?
(8:20) Is there a difference between doing the Battle Plan on the app or in the journal vs. just keeping track in a journal?
(12:00) Is it best to build your objectives on the previous quarter, or should you bounce around, as long as it moves you toward your vision?
(15:00) What does your battle plan look like for Q3?
(19:00) How can I incorporate a side hustle into my battle plan, while having a full time career?
(21:00) Any advice for a new Iron Council member?
(23:00) Can “nutrition” alone be an objective for the condition quadrant?
(27:40) How do you reconcile with a fear of failure?
(33:20) Do you have any tips on going after multiple goals at once?
(37:40) Why is it hard to see your dad, who was once a strong and able-bodied man, deteriorate?
(42:00) How is your BJJ journey going now that you are back in Utah?
(43:10) How much do you involved your girlfriend in discussing your own goals and plans for the future?
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Every one of us has experienced trauma of some sort in our lives. Some more challenging scenarios than others. But it does no good to compare our own circumstances with others, only what those who seem to be able to manage and work past the difficulties of life can teach us.
Combat Rescue Helicopter Pilot, Lt. Colonel Brian Slade joins me on today to talk about strategies he’s learned and developed for overcoming some of the worst scenarios he and others have overcome in their lives. We discuss the concept of “chair flying” as a method for anticipating and preparing for traumatic events, the difference between those who adapt to challenge and those who don’t, why we as men need to wrap our heads around “operating in the ugly,” overcoming festering emotional wounds, and how to triumph over trauma.
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In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses SEVEN areas that, if approached with intentionality and consistency, will drastically improve your life. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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(0:00) Episode intro⠀
(11:50) As a father whom has lost 4 children to miscarriage since 2015, is it acceptable to be bothered by people not including me into fathers day thoughts? Or is that just projecting as I can't expect them to remember as my kids are not standing next to me?
(26:00) I’m a step dad to a 14-year-old daughter. I’ve been in her life for 8 years, but still haven’t found that connection. What are your thoughts on helping to build that bond?
(34:40) What can I do to repair the relationship with my older children?
(43:20) How do you balance or navigate being a new business owner and your family?
(47:30) How do you navigate being a father that is present in your kids life’s while spending the time necessary to grow a business, volunteer, be there for them men in your battle team, and all the things we need to do to be good men?
(57:00) I can’t get the voice of my abusive father out of my head and I’m afraid that I am showing signs of behaving in a similar way toward my own children. What advice would you offer to help me and guys like me in similar circumstances?
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Child sex trafficking literally permeates every corner of the globe. It’s despicable, it’s nasty, and it’s a growing trend, even in 2023. Where most men recognize problems in this world, few are willing to put their own careers and lives on the line to create solutions.
My guest today is built different. His name is Tim Ballard and he is the founder of Operation Underground Railroad which exists to rescue children from dangerous and despicable sex rings. Today, we talk about what a truly compassionate border policy would look like, the hyper-sexualization of the world and the degeneracy it leads to, how unintended policy incentives often make problems worse, why evil lurks behind the concept of tolerance, and his latest film uncovering the underground child sex trade, Sound of Freedom.
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